A burnout coach who's lived it and recovered.
Like so many professionals, I spent long hours at my desk trying to meet the unrelenting demands of my clients, and defending positions I didn't always believe in, until burnout caught up with me. My body felt constantly tense, my mind overloaded, panic attacks were frequent.
One day I found myself lying on the cold stone tiles of the office bathroom, just trying to feel something. That was my wake-up call.
I discovered that the way I was breathing was keeping my nervous system locked in survival mode. Changing it gave me the capacity to step back, learn about what causes burnout, and make changes that enabled me to recover. It was the discovery that has made me passionate about helping others avoid what I went through.
Burnout is rarely a personal failing, it's usually a workplace asking too much for too long. I work with organisations to identify and change the conditions unique to them that cause it. And I work with individuals to retrain their nervous system, recover from burnout, manage anxiety, and build genuine resilience: not the kind that just means enduring more, but the kind that means bouncing back faster.
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DCA Certified Coach
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Is this you?
Signs you're dealing with burnout, chronic stress, or anxiety.
Exhaustion that won't liftYou sleep, but you never feel rested. You're tired even when nothing has happened.
Can't switch offYour mind keeps running after hours. The tension follows you home and into bed.
Anxiety or dreadA low-level hum of something wrong. Reactive to things that didn't used to bother you.
Poor sleepWaking at 3am. Restless nights. Mornings that feel worse than the night before.
Performance decliningThe focus, drive, and edge you used to have are not there the way they were.
Body holding the stressTight chest, shallow breathing, jaw tension, headaches. Your body's keeping score.
If any of these feel familiar, your nervous system is likely stuck in a chronic stress response, built up in response to real conditions at work: workload, lack of control, unfair treatment, or being asked to compromise your values, not a character flaw. What you're feeling is physiology, and you can change it. But it's worth being honest about what created it, so you're not just building a better tolerance for something that shouldn't have to be tolerated.
And if you're reading this as a manager or leader and recognising more than one person on your team, that's not a coincidence you can coach your way out of individually. It's a workplace signal, and it needs a workplace response.
Nothing on this site constitutes or should be taken as medical advice. Always consult a healthcare professional for personalised guidance and treatment of any medical condition. © 2026 Simon Fogarty trading as The Burnt Out Lawyer.